Expert shares tips on talking to kids about school safety after Minneapolis tragedy

Many parents nationwide are anxious about school safety as the academic year begins.

These concerns have intensified following Wednesday’s shooting at Annunciation Catholic School in Minneapolis, where Robin Westman killed 8-year-old Fletcher Merkel and 10-year-old Harper Moyski and injured 18 others.

A 2014 survey from Pew Research revealed that approximately one-third of parents with K-12 students are extremely worried about potential shootings at their children’s schools.

Clinical psychologist Lauren Cook, author of “Generation Anxiety,” emphasized that parents should tailor their approach based on their child’s age when discussing school safety.

“For children between ages 2 and 7, we should only address these topics if they bring them up first,” Cook told ABC News. “Keep the information simple, avoid graphic details and reassure them that adults are working to keep them safe.”

For older children and teenagers who are more aware of current events, Cook recommended having honest conversations that validate their emotions.

“If they feel scared or angry, we need to normalize those feelings and discuss specific safety plans to help them feel secure at school,” she said.

Cook suggested practical ways for children to channel their anxiety into positive action.

“Whether it’s volunteering or writing to their representatives, there’s no age too young to start making a positive impact in [one’s] community,” she said.

She also encouraged students to speak up if they notice concerning behavior in their peers, such as signs of depression or hostility.

For parents struggling with their own anxieties, especially those sending children to school for the first time, Cook advised maintaining strong family connections through regular dinners and meaningful conversations.

“Instead of just asking, ‘How was your day,’ try more open-ended questions about their feelings and experiences,” she said. “It’s crucial for parents to manage their own emotional reactions while staying connected with their children.”